Published on August 21st, 2017 by Alan L. Sklover
“The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn’t being said.”
– Shannon L. Adler
At work, perhaps more than anywhere else, communication matters a lot. But words are not the only manner of communication. Silence is sometimes the better communicator. For example, in negotiating, I always listen for “and not a penny more.” If not said, I take that as in invitation to keep asking for more. As another example, if I raise an important issue twice, and those I am speaking with do not respond either time, I know it is something they fear, and thus valuable to me. Yes, ironically, silence often expresses the most important message, in the clearest fashion, about the central issues before you, in the most honest way.
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